Allow setting failover property in the replication command.

Allow setting failover property in the replication command.

This commit implements a new replication command called
ALTER_REPLICATION_SLOT and a corresponding walreceiver API function named
walrcv_alter_slot. Additionally, the CREATE_REPLICATION_SLOT command has
been extended to support the failover option.

These new additions allow the modification of the failover property of a
replication slot on the publisher. A subsequent commit will make use of
these commands in subscription commands and will add the tests as well to
cover the functionality added/changed by this commit.

Author: Hou Zhijie, Shveta Malik
Reviewed-by: Peter Smith, Bertrand Drouvot, Dilip Kumar, Masahiko Sawada, Nisha Moond, Kuroda, Hayato, Amit Kapila
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/514f6f2f-6833-4539-39f1-96cd1e011f23@enterprisedb.com