Make stxstattarget nullable

Make stxstattarget nullable

To match attstattarget change (commit 4f622503d6d).  The logic inside
CreateStatistics() is clarified a bit compared to that previous patch,
and so here we also update ATExecSetStatistics() to match.

Reviewed-by: Tomas Vondra <tomas.vondra@enterprisedb.com>
Discussion: https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/flat/4da8d211-d54d-44b9-9847-f2a9f1184c76@eisentraut.org