Generalize parallel slot result handling.

Generalize parallel slot result handling.

Instead of having a hard-coded behavior that we ignore missing
tables and report all other errors, let the caller decide what
to do by setting a callback.

Mark Dilger, reviewed and somewhat revised by me. The larger patch
series of which this is a part has also had review from Peter
Geoghegan, Andres Freund, Álvaro Herrera, Michael Paquier, and Amul
Sul, but I don't know whether any of them have reviewed this bit
specifically.

Discussion: http://postgr.es/m/12ED3DA8-25F0-4B68-937D-D907CFBF08E7@enterprisedb.com
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