Use aux process resource owner in walsender

Use aux process resource owner in walsender

AIO will need a resource owner to do IO. Right now we create a resowner
on-demand during basebackup, and we could do the same for AIO. But it seems
easier to just always create an aux process resowner.

Reviewed-by: Heikki Linnakangas <hlinnaka@iki.fi>
Reviewed-by: Noah Misch <noah@leadboat.com>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/1f6b50a7-38ef-4d87-8246-786d39f46ab9@iki.fi