deps(memorystore): update dependencies across redis samples

[angelcaamal]

Description

Fixes b/565777861
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[gemini-code-assist]

Code Review

This pull request updates the minimum Node.js engine requirement to version 20.0.0 across the Redis packages and upgrades several dependencies, including @opentelemetry/resources and chai. However, upgrading chai to ^6.0.0 introduces a breaking change because Chai v5 and above are ESM-only, which is incompatible with this project's CommonJS configuration. It is recommended to revert chai to ^4.3.0 to prevent test failures.

[amcolin]

LGTM

[XrossFox]

LGTM